“Everybody is somebody’s baby.”

Somebody’s Baby is a body of work rooted in the belief that everybody is somebody’s baby. I use motherhood as an entry point to explore what it means to be human and create things that help people feel more connected, seen, and less alone.

What is Somebody’s Baby?

This is a business, yes. But, it’s also a philosophy about how people deserve to move through the world. I use motherhood as the lens for exploring care, identity, emotional life, and humanity through things like audio, gatherings, writing, field guides, and wearable reminders.

Honestly, it’s all trying to help people feel more human and less alone.”

Meet The Founder

Hi, I’m Toi, founder of Somebody’s Baby and mother of four.

Somebody’s Baby began during the early year of my own movement through motherhood and postpartum, but over time I realized the work was asking a bigger question than how mothers survive. It was asking what it means for people to remain human while caring for other people.

Motherhood changed the way I moved through the world emotionally, physically, socially, creatively, and spiritually. It made me pay attention to how often people are expected to carry invisible weight quietly while continuing to nurture everyone around them. It also sharpened my awareness of how deeply people want to feel seen, considered, comforted, and connected to themselves again.

Somebody’s Baby is what grew from that.

Motherhood is the entry point, but I believe that if you talk about motherhood long enough, you’ll end up talking about everything.

I’m not interested in telling women, or anyone, the “right” way to mother or live their lives.

I’m interested in creating language for our lives, spaces where we feel remembered, and reminders that tenderness is still ours, even though we’re all grown up.

I believe that’s why i’m here.